Tuesday, September 23, 2025

Lifting for Life


 I'm going to start writing again.  At the beginning of the year I wrote a couple of blogs; but before that it was literally 9 years ago, crazy.  I've decided that I'm going to get going again and write about Lifting for Life at 63 and beyond.  Lifting is a passion and as I age it becomes more of a passion that I want to share with others.  If at anytime you have a question, you can dm me a @mamaregalbuto on instagram. 

In the above photo, I am showing very slow and precise movement because I've been dealing with a couple injuries.  First was my shoulder (maybe rotator cuff)?  Next came pulled rib muscles because of my shoulder injury.  If you've ever pulled a rib muscle, you know how painful it is.  And finally my neck, which is connected to it all.  I have a bad neck because of 4 rear end collisions; so it doesn't take much for me to have a serious bad neck. My shoulder pain started September 11th and got seriously worse and  painful by the 12th and 13th.  Then, with lots of advil it started to feel better.  Dealing with the pain that I had on the 12th; I was sure that I was headed for surgery.  I didn't do anything specific but I do think it was lifting my very tall, 50 lb standard poodle in and out of the car; basically wear and tear at 63.  

So, shoulder, ribs and neck...shit.  For me, not working out is not an option.  So into the garage (gym) I go where I stood and stared at the weights.  This was going to be tough, because almost everything requires lifting with your arms; even if you aren't working out your arms or not.  Now, luckily I have several machines that can isolate without the need to lift with my arm.  Hmmmmm???????

Okay, so quads it was.  I have a good leg extension machine and I could do some body weight and light weight squats with little impact to my arm.  Since my injury at it's worse, I have only missed a handful of workouts.  The first couple of days I was actually out of state, so it was a natural weight break.  Once home, I hit the gym on the second day.  It's not easy but if I made the choice to sit and wait; wait for my arm, ribs and neck to heal completely; my head would fall to pieces.  It's not good for my mental health not to workout.  Lifting is not an option for me, it's a lifestyle. 

My shoulder has been the fastest to heal.  It's not done yet and I still have to be very careful but it's coming along. I truly believe that working out helps me to heal faster.  So much so, I looked it up and found it to be true.  Makes sense.  I also used red light therapy so not sure if that helped as well.  

  • Tissue Healing - Additionally, weightlifting can promote the healing of injured tissues. When an individual engages in resistance training, it can increase blood flow to the affected area, which can deliver oxygen and nutrients to the injured tissues. This increased blood flow can also help to remove waste products from the area, which can aid in the healing process.

credit:  www.weightlifting.org 

I love working out, I love being strong and as we age, being strong is even more important than ever before.  I'll let you know how it goes.  I'm stubborn, so I will win this battle.   ðŸ˜‰


Thursday, February 27, 2025

Lifting around an injury

                                                    This is my knee.


Last fall while landscaping, I made a very stupid mistake.  I stepped up too high with my right leg to get up onto the slope at the side of our yard.  I didn't do it correctly.  My leg was too high to engage any muscles and the brunt of the lift went all to my knee (I know better).  I felt it and I heard it but disregarded it and continued to work (me in a nutshell).  But the weeks and months ahead were plagued with knee pain.  I've had my fair share of injuries; do a lot of stuff, your going to get hurt sometimes.  

But at 62, an injury takes a whole lot longer to heal, if it will heal.  So I'm probably about 6 months out from the high step up and it's still bugging me.  It is not a debilitating injury but it is most definitely bugging me bigtime.  So I decided to finally go the Orthopaedic specialist to see what was going on. I wanted to know if there was something seriously wrong or if this was something I just have to be patient with. 

Almost all of my injuries have happened when I was doing activities other than lifting.  Skiing, playing on a floating inflatable water park, landscaping, kicking things etc.  Over the years I've had to deal with many different injuries; some very serious and long term.  

Not working out is not an option for me; not even when I have a serious injury.  So, this mean a lot of focus on engaging the right muscles around the injury without further damaging it.  This one is a weird injury for me; I've had two serious knee injuries before this one and this one is tough.  Basically I have damaged my patellar and quadricep tendons.  I over stretched and paid the price.  So bending my knee is what bothers me.  


I am going to go to physical therapy, hopefully they can do something.  But I'm doing a lot of stretching, careful stretching and lifting around it.  Not easy but I will not stop lifting because I don't want my knee to be weak.  I am also wearing a knee brace when I knee to be sure that my knee doesn't give out on me.  Being commited to remaining strong is very important as we get older.  Muscle atrophy is a very real thing; and injuries can really put a wrench into your workouts if you let them.  

Nope, not stopping.

Wednesday, February 19, 2025

62 - still lifting

                                                                       Back workout

Well, it's been a minute...over 8 years to be exact.  I guess I was MIA for a while, but I'm back and still lifting.  I will be 63 this year and I am working out harder than I ever had.  As we age it is even more important to get started working out or keep working out if you already work out.  It can seem daunting, I know.  Going to the gym can be very intimidating; but, it's one of those things, ya just gotta be comitted to getting and staying strong.  You can totally start working out at home; you don't have to go to a gym at all.  If you are determined, get off that couch and get started.  It just takes will and determination.  

There are a lot of things to consider if you are interested in starting to work out in your 50s or 60s.  You have to be careful, very careful, start slow and focus on form.  I would highly recommend workout bands to start.  If you've never worked out before; they are a great way to get started.  But you have to start moving and lifting if you want to even maintain the muscle that you have.  

It's a fact, as we age, we lose muscle mass which is called sarcopenia and can start as early as your 30s.  There are  many things that happen when you start losing muscle mass but the biggest thing is lack of ability to move safely.  If you live a sedentary life, you will be losing muscle on a daily basis.  This leaves your joints to fend on their own; which often means injury.  If you don't have muscles to help you move on your day to day; you most definitely risk injuring yourself.  

You don't want to fall.  Falling is one of the worst things that happens to many people as they age.  Without muscles to help you move safely; your risk of falling goes way up. If you want to be sure footed, able to lift things (even groceries) and do the things that you've loved to do all your life, get strong and stay strong.  

I've added a couple of things to my workouts in the last year or so that are fairly a new focus for me.  Core and balance exercises are a big part of my daily workouts now.  Decreased muscle and balance make it difficult to have solid stability when moving around and that is where your risk of falling comes from.  Want a strong core? Want to be able to walk around with confidence?  Work your core and your balance and your gonna be a rockstar.  

Each and every muscle in your body helps to move you around safely.  So we need to work them all.  The old saying "use it or lose it" is so very true.  Now up off that couch and let's go. 

Glad to be back.  I'll be posting lots more.    

Friday, November 11, 2016

Lifting weights is smart.



I'm watching the sun come up as I write which is one of my favorite things to do.  The start of a new day.  Where will your day take you?  Mine is taking me to the gym as soon as I finish writing this, downing my coffee and eating my Perfect Bar.

I want all of you woman and men who are nearing 50 and don't work out to lift.  It doesn't matter if you've never lifted a lb. in your life before.  Start lifting today.  We are all going in the same direction and we are all going to lose muscle mass so we all need to "use it or lose it."

The last year has been a challenge for my lifting but I have not stop.  My ankle injury is still present, it is a split tendon and it's not healing so there will be a needed surgery when I have the time for some major downtime recovery, yuck.  The idea of not going to the gym freaks me out.  It's not the actual gym that I'll miss, but whats in the gym.  I love lifting, I love challenging myself and I love being strong.

Just because you are aging does not mean that you can't lift.  What it does mean is that you should be lifting.  All I can tell you is how I feel when I lift vs. don't.  Lifting gives you the ability to do things that you can't do when you don't lift.  Just imagine for a moment, a huge big crane is trying to lift some commercial beams up to high level floors of a building.  Unfortunately the crane is made of light gauge cord.  It can't lift the heavy beams without being damaged.  Right beside that flimsy crane is a big strong crane with strong cables that can do the job and do it easily.

I'm always trying to come up with an analogy that will hit a cord with those sitting on the fence about lifting.  You do not have to go to the gym to get strong, but you do have to lift.  A lot of people I talk to tell me that they walk!  Walking is great but it is just walking.  If you want to get strong you MUST lift.

Age is a number, that's it.  If you have never lifted before, start today.  Getting strong is a process.  You cannot grab a 50lb. dumbbell today and expect to do what the seasoned pros are doing. You have to start small and grow slowly if you want to do it wisely and without injury.  I often hand people weights that seem far too light in the beginning.  It is better to achieve success rather than fail in the beginning.  This helps to create a passion for more instead of suffering from the all too common "this is too hard and I can barely walk."

Well, I'm off to the gym.  Have a wonderful day.  Go lift.

Tuesday, August 23, 2016

Working out around injuries



Wow, it's been 8 months, where the heck has the time gone?  I've been very busy this year but my workouts have not stopped.  I wanted to blog today after skipping so long without a blog because I've learned so much in the last few months of working out.

First, I want to talk about age related stuff.  Oh ya it's just great getting older, lots more aches and pains.  Anyhow, about those aches.  I've been dealing with some joint pain and injury.  This has meant that I needed to tweak my workouts.  No, it does not mean that I had to stop, just work around the problem.

Working around an injury or weakness teaches you a great deal.  It has taught me how to focus when lifting and even though I already knew that form was important; it is now even more of a focus for me.  

I wish that everyone knew how important form and full range motion lifting is.  I watched a guy at the gym today and shuddered at his workout.  He was lifting weights that he could barely lift.  The range he had to stay in was the joint damage range.  There was no full range muscle usage which meant that he was setting himself up for a serious injury.  First because he isn't building any muscle by only moving within a 2" radius and second because he is solely relying on his joints to do the work.  No muscle = joint injury.  Whether you lift or not, you need muscle to protect your joints.

When I lift around an injury or weakness; I am very consciously avoiding the area and building the muscle around it.  I currently have an ankle injury, a split tendon to be specific.  I could have sat out of working out for a longtime for this one.  But that idea was not even an option.  So, I've had to do a lot of things very differently which has in fact been very educational.  

How do you do your legs without your ankle?  Hmmmmmmm. I'm wearing a full boot so that is protection there; and I am not doing any ankle bending movements.  I am not relying on my ankle for any help, which is very important.  It gets to sit out for a while.  I am doing straight legged movements and using my boot leg.  My focus is on everything around the injury, using each muscle that I can while avoiding the injured area.  It has required focus and a big learning curve.  

No more blindly pumping iron, everything is done with methodical precision.  Working out as you get older is harder, I'm not going to lie.  But not working out makes the day to day so much more difficult.  

My son gave me a piece of advise almost two years ago that changed the way I worked out from that moment.  I have called upon that advise with my current injury.  I was attempting to do full pull-ups, very difficult for any woman.  I could feel the strain in my poor elbows as I struggled, when he said to me "Mom, engage your lats (latissimus dorsi)."  Those four words changed it all.  Stop putting so much strain on the joints and use all the muscles to lift.  It made a huge difference.

Now when I am doing my leg curls, assisted pull-up leg squats or seated leg press; my quads and hamstrings are doing the heavy lifting.  This results in them getting stronger to protect my joints even more. 






Friday, January 22, 2016

A new year, a new diet.






A new year has begun again and with January's arrival comes the "diet" word in many households.  I hate the term "diet" because it is misused all the time.  Diet is what you eat; it does not mean a weight loss diet.  

The gym is also filled with all those who are turning over a new leaf in their life.  There will be people who make it and those who do not; the ones who will start over again next January.  But why do so many people fail?  Many fail because they move too far away from their comfort zone.  Success is often achieved with baby steps. 

If you have a diet filled with processed food, sugar and carbs; then switching over to a diet void of carbs, processed food and sugar will make it nearly impossible.  Making a big diet change can be tough when your body is use to one thing for such a long time and then try to remove it completely.  The mind is a crazy thing and it can sometimes be the obstacle in the way of success.

Getting your head to agree with the new diet can take some time and discussion.  First you have to stop thinking that you are being deprived.  Next, there is no secret pill.  You may need to lose weight or you might just want to eat a better and more nutritional diet.  Whatever your reason for diet change; you need to let your head know what is going on and why.  

You only have one body in this life of yours; why not fuel it to the best of your ability?  When we eat food; it goes through a huge process before leaving again.  If there is no real nutritional value in what we eat then it is not helping to fuel our body at all.  In fact it may be causing damage on it's way through.  

Eating healthy food and loving it takes a new way of thinking.  If your current diet is a junk food base then you will need to teach yourself about the joys of healthy food.  Eating should not be just to quench hunger; we should eat to fuel our body to best it can be.  That means going back to simple and unprocessed.  You can change your palate but it definitely takes time and mind games.  

Yes, I eat things that are not considered healthy; everyone has a weakness or two.  I allow myself to eat indulgent foods, but in moderation.  Often the idea of not being allowed to eat things makes us want them more.  We feel deprived and cannot continue on the new healthy way of eating because of deprivation. 

Eating healthy is a good thing.  Learning to love healthy food is a process.  If your diet has gone down the processed path then you need to step off the road you are on.  You need to sit down and have a talk with yourself.  When you eat a diet filled with nutritional food; you are giving your food that it needs, foods it can use.  You will feel amazing; but it will not happen overnight.  Change is a process, take the first baby step today and the next when you are ready.  Take care of that body, you only have one.     

Sunday, October 18, 2015

Body building???




I was at the Doctors the other day when she asked me what I do as far as exercise.  I told her that I walk, run and lift.  She immediately asked if I was a bodybuilder.  I paused and pondered... "no" I said, I just lift weights.  So on the way home I thought about her question.  When she asked if I was a body builder, I instantly thought of those steroid man looking women; so of course my answer was no.  But once I started to think about it I thought that perhaps I am. 

Knowing that our bodies lose muscle mass as we age; I am most definitely building my body so that I don't suffer from the effects quite as drastically.  Yes I am a body builder is what my answer should have been; but I also don't want people thinking that I am in the gym to look like those man/women.

Why do I care?  Because I'm not in the gym for a fashion statement; although my daughter has me decked out pretty snazzy via Reebok.  I am not there to get huge muscles nor there to compete with or look like a man.  I am at the gym to stay strong and try to reverse the effects of aging.  At 53 and a recent Grandma of 2 gorgeous little men; I am proud to say that Grandma lifts.  If you don't work your muscles to keep them strong and flexible then you will lose them and end up being a feeble old person at the an age that you should not be feeble.  I have met many people younger than myself who are feeble.  I have met people who think that dieting, losing weight and being skinny is what it's all about.  But asked to do something strenuous and they fail drastically.  

Just imagine how much harder it is to do anything when you have little to no muscle?  Your muscles ache when asked to do even the smallest of movements and your joints suffer under the pressure with no muscle to protect them.  It happens to all of us and you can either shrug your shoulders and say "I can't."  Or you can say "hell yes I can," and get moving.  Starting with very small weights and low repetitions, anyone who is not seriously ill can start to lift.  

So, the other day at the Doctors, I should have replied yes; when asked if I was a bodybuilder.  But the whole image of what many think of lifting weights got in the way.